Random update as i was really busy with midterm presentation for my university final year thesis. I spend most of my time thinking maybe i was stupid after all. I even fail to write a simple e-mail and got no reply as to why i am over thinking so much. But anyway just a random thought.
People who own their mistakes are really cool isn't.
Not that type to say sorry all the time; you have to be careful, if you apologize so that other people feel bad then you are a piece of shit. You are running away, imo. You don't want to take the blame.
Maybe thats what they meant by 'saying sorry won't fix it', you need to own your mistakes and take responsibility. Like i really hate it when someone did me wrong and they apologized straight away. In the context where I wanted to be angry. Like you know 'I am sorry, don't be mad'.
Screw you, you wronged me and I could not even be mad?
In this situation, i wanted to be angry for a few days and then forgive.
So if you wrong people and they are mad at you, accept it. You deserve it, no?
Another example, some people just does not want to be troubled. Rather than
'Don't do this and this because i am not going to save you if anything goes wrong'
In that sentence i understand you are worried but it just makes me feel like i am not important.
(Hypothetically)